Reprinted with permission from Groton Dunstable Living, February 2024 edition.
As the pontoon boat pushed off from the dock on Lost Lake, Theresa Fisk and Beverly Smith found themselves on another unlikely adventure. The sunset cruise last summer marked only the latest excursion for a friendship forged during the pandemic.
Both retirees, Theresa and Beverly each felt the isolation of the 2020 COVID lockdowns: no senior center lunches, no games with friends and no church services. Fortunately, they had Groton Neighbors, Inc, an all-volunteer, non-profit group that helps members live independently at home.
With its own events and services hampered by the pandemic, Groton Neighbors got creative. It introduced Front Porch Chats and paired 14 interested members, including Theresa and Beverly, to visit in the safety of outdoor porches and patios for conversation and laughs.
“It really was a way of getting all of us through this so somehow we weren’t alone,” says Beverly who has visited regularly with Theresa ever since, driving her to garden tours, luncheons, shopping and more. “For me it was important to have a porch chat buddy, and we got to know each other pretty well.”
Their story is just one of many at Groton Neighbors, which since 2017, has been pairing members in need of a service with members who volunteer to perform them. Members delivered 211 services in 2023, approaching 1,000 total requests fulfilled since its start. The services range from rides to the doctor to WiFi tech support.
“There has been much research about volunteering, doing things for the benefit of other people,” says Bob Pine, Groton Neighbors’ President. “Those studies consistently show that benefits accrue to the giver as well as the receiver, some of those being sense of purpose, self-esteem, new relationships, sense of community and on and on, with the most consistent benefit being simply, ‘It makes you happy’.”
The opportunity to serve others and build community has resonated with many Groton residents. Groton Neighbors grew to 134 members in 2023, adding 28 to its ranks. The members range in age from 29 to 101 years old.